Human beings are social by nature, which is why friendship is an invaluable gift that must be learned, cultivated, and cherished as a precious treasure.
Affective bonds are essential in life. No one can live isolated from society; even hermits have contact with other human beings from time to time. This is part of our nature, and friendship is a vital bond. This is why God created us capable of living in society and allows us to learn to coexist. It is true that sometimes it is difficult to understand everyone.
A Friend is a Treasure
Over the years, we meet many people with whom we form bonds, sometimes lasting, sometimes fleeting. Yet, few are those who accompany us throughout our entire lives.
This is why the Holy Scriptures contain several passages that exalt friendship:
“A faithful friend is a sturdy shelter; he who finds one finds a treasure. What would one not give for a faithful friend? He is beyond price! A faithful friend is a life-saving remedy; those who fear the Lord will find him. He who fears the Lord directs his friendship aright, for as he is, so is his neighbor” (Sirach 6:14-17).
We are the Friends of Jesus
The Lord Jesus also knew the joy of friendship, both with His disciples and with certain families, like that of Lazarus, Martha, and Mary.
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He loved participating in moments of fellowship, where He could share the table and joy with His friends. But the most beautiful thing is that He also considers us His friends:
“Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you” (John 15:13-15).
Being Faithful in Friendship
This is why we must take care of our friends and remain faithful to them, as the book of Sirach says:
“...whoever dishonors a friend breaks the bond of friendship. If you have drawn your sword against a friend, do not despair, for a way back is open. If you have made a harsh remark, do not fear, for reconciliation is possible. But for abuse, contempt, a breach of confidence, or a treacherous blow—any friend will take flight” (Sirach 22:20-22).
May our lives be enriched by the gift of friendship, for friends can also help us reach heaven.
Article sourced from the original article by Aleteia.